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Tšhegofatšo Ndabane
Tšhegofatšo Ndabane

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May 17, 2021

Sex is Cool but Have You Ever Been Touched by the Romance of Queer Friendships?

Without even thinking, I reached past the condiments scattered around the table and took their hands in mine. As they recounted tales of navigating childhood and exploring softness through adult relationships; I silently traced my fingers across their palm lines, massaged the wrinkles of skin over their knuckles, and slid…

Romantic Friendships

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Sex is Cool but Have You Ever Been Touched by the Romance of Queer Friendships?
Sex is Cool but Have You Ever Been Touched by the Romance of Queer Friendships?
Romantic Friendships

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Conscious Being

·Apr 5, 2021

Home-Schooling during the Pandemic.

3 disabled mother’s tell us their experiences… — [ID: A Black mother and daughter are sitting on the ground in a forest. The daughter is leaning backwards on her mother. They both have serious looks on their faces.] I believe one of the most beautiful things about our humanity during times of crises, is our ability to laugh…

Disability

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3 Mothers Talk Home-Schooling during the Pandemic
3 Mothers Talk Home-Schooling during the Pandemic
Disability

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Conscious Being

·Mar 22, 2021

Grounded in the Earth: On ecotherapy and healing with nature this International Day of Forests

[ID: A Black woman, her back to the camera, wearing a white slip dress, stands in the middle of a forest, with beautiful trees and white flowers scattered across the ground. Her arms a stretched out and she is looking up.] When I moved to a little place nestled in…

Ecotherapy

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Grounded in the Earth: On ecotherapy and healing with nature this International Day of Forests
Grounded in the Earth: On ecotherapy and healing with nature this International Day of Forests
Ecotherapy

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Conscious Being

·Jan 21, 2021

Hug Me but Don’t Touch Me

On skin hunger and mental health this National Hug Day — A few days into South Africa’s national lockdown last year, a dear friend — whose primary love languages are also quality time and physical touch — and I were on the phone chuckling about how we just weren’t built for this pandemic. I had just moved and in full nesting…

Affection Deprivation

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Hug me but don’t touch me: On skin hunger and mental health this National Hug Day
Hug me but don’t touch me: On skin hunger and mental health this National Hug Day
Affection Deprivation

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Dec 22, 2020

In my skin: On choosing joy by communing with the sadness

The moments come often now. When the wind stops by to dance on my forearms and the soil creeps up to tickle my toes. They come often and they settle deeply. I know that now because I am able to hear their footsteps on my doorway. For a while, I…

Radical Softness

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Radical Softness

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Tšhegofatšo Ndabane

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